When you are single it takes time and preparation to become what you prayed for.
A lot of woman will ask for the husband god has for them.
Desire the characteristics
Mentally emotional Spiritual Physically Socially
But don't understand that God is going to prepare you to be the wife to match that husband you want.
It is but a little thing for him to find your husband he picked him the second you asked for him.
YOU just need to be ready for him.
Why because marriage isn't just
Love making Cooking Cleaning Being mom and dad
Its finances Lifestyles (blending)
What your children will lean watching you both.
Communication (how your kids learn to treat each other by watching you)
You need to have relationship with a man that will be a good father figure to teach daughters - how a man should treat them By how he treats them By how he treats you
- how he teaches his sons By how his sons see how to treat his mom How the father tells him to treat other women
There were marriages in the past Our grand parents The Generation that stays together
The problem truth be told they had a lot of marriages where they married and just stayed together because to was wrong to divorce and were miserable.
Then with today society you started seeing people divorce. Or in that generation legally separate (they stayed married but separated there lives
Within the home Or separated living like singles - Separate homes - Cars - Relationships - Lives
(Never legally divorcing)
But then there are some that are rare. Like love stories.
They got married
Stayed married(10, 20, 30,40,50,60,70, YEARS) Wrote love letters to each other they kept in boxes till they died.
There kids
Grand kids could read on the old tarnished wearing paper.
THAT'S the love we all should aspire for. That stands the test of time.
Anything with having is with fighting for
Fight together Don't fight each other
Build a lasting relationship.
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