Marriage
Most of us think about marriage as.
The relationship The ring The white dress
All of us forget the marriage actually starts after the honeymoon is over and you realize you are in a relationship with that person and your going to have to deal with their good bad AND ugly.
We say it in vows but do you really get it’s SO much bigger then you.
People hear sub- mission and equate it to slavery
“I don’t want to serve him, I’m not going to be his slave I’m not going to run around here doing nothing I don’t want to do… and if he tries me he ain’t even gonna get what I’m willing to give him…”
But wait did you marry someone to cater to you… ONLY under your conditions.
Two can’t become one unless they agree
You see most people don’t get this but when you get married your supposed to be evenly yoked and both of your life goals and desires need to be aligned in the same direction.
Your MAIN mission is to do the work of the lord together
But your SUB mission is to be servants to one another.
Oooo, I bet you never thought about it like that hmm…. You know why? Because 75% of the couples in the world NEVER married for gods mission on their life and equal yokes, that why 50% of them end up divorced.
They had no goals and destiny that they were running toward God for (yeah running toward God) they to busy running towards each other and god ain’t even a apart of the picture.
They so busy just trying to get married and be married and make love to teach other and have baby, then when you struggling and trials come you look at each other in hatred because your unevenly yoked and you can’t support each other resentment come into the picture and your spirits start pulling away from one another.
Woman are complaining “I’m not going to submit to him”
Well maybe you never were supposed to… you start off wrong you end up wrong your marriage has no foundation and no mission then it’s going to fall apart. You should have a mission plan when you go into courting, when you know your both into each other and you declare you’re going to be in this thing for manage you need to have a desired goal and outcome and write that down and work towards that thing.
You always need to be working towards something an end goal.
Because, when you both have a goal in site for your marriage in related to your work for the lord that should ALWAYS trump the feelings that you have for each other in spur of the moment discord and confusion. It’s not about the flesh it’s about doing God’s best.
At the end of the day it’s about glorifying God.
“Love God… and love thy neighbors the way god loved the church”
It’s nothing in there about you, you must treat you right in order to handle the mantle that God puts on your life but never become selfish, be selfless, give it to god and let god deal with it, your marriage needs to bring you closer to god not man, the man is only there as represented and his assignment is to protect and your job is to help him and you together are to bring about the desired plans that the lord gave to you
Your marriage is a SUB mission to your main mission to being glory to the lord with the desired mission he gave you to complete.
So woman when you are being told to submit. Your just completing and giving into the secondary mission that god gave you and doing it in such a way that exalts god.
So how many of you woman are ready for you SUB Mission
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