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DOUBLE STANDARD: Woman are hidden while Godly men aren't held to the same standard
Okay Lets Go IN on this
As woman that are godly there are certain rules that the lord put upon us, one of which if we are going to be married at some point we must save yourself for that manage.
Now, lines get blurred with this Date – don’t Date Court – wait on god
Now from my experience I tried playing the I’m going to do this my way thing and end up getting played
By my ex By a man I wasn’t even dating By a man that was trying to get next to me
So let me tell you I told god “LOOK, lord you go out there find my husband for me here are my characteristic qualifications when you find him tell me so I can ignore everyone coming at me and focus on you.
Because as godly woman you ARE NOT supposed to be on there dressing provocatively or suggestively in any way you are to remain his en until you are presented to the one that you are to marry, which mean don’t dress in such ways to tempt men (FYI: I never do but for some reason men just get attracted to me anyway)
But you see there is such a strict rule for us to remain hidden. But why is it that men are not held to the same standard, they seem to be able to let things slide.
They remain committed in relationship while in a relationship but second they are out of one they go through a phase of messing around with woman till they get over the last one THEN go back to being celibate.
But mean while all the woman they screwed around with done got attached and created soul ties with them that they got to get rid of that could become baggage for the right one.
So why is that men don’t have to stay hidden as well till they work out there mess and get presented with their future spouse.
Now some men choose to remain celibate till marriage, That’s few and far between, a lot of them do it just for focal (focus) reasons.
And that wasn’t a on purpose situation for the reason of marriage they just stumbled into and then when they met the one they had to continue till marriage.
It’s not a standard for them.
Now, yes a woman could decide not, but a woman is supposed to stay consecrated in order to be holy enough to be able to enter into godly ordained marriage.
Some will stay that way from 3, 4 and 5 years.
But the blessing in that is when god gets them together they could literally end up married in 1, 2 3 month 1 years or even 18 months.
But it can happen very FAST, because they consecrated.
I don’t know ifs a thing about men NEEDING sex so they aren’t held to the same standard but it is in the bible
1 Corinthians 7:1-40 ESV / 15 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...
So if a man of god is in the sanctity of the church shouldn’t actually be laying with woman unless he is married to her if he can’t control himself then he needs to find a wife.
So again I say why is that a man is not held to the same standard as woman, where a woman has to wait in order to man consecrated, men don’t have to be consecrated. There is sno issue with that in the church, then you have the age old problem of woman are willing to give into the men that aren’t following the consecration and those that are over there remaining purified and saved for their husbands are stuck waiting because these other woman are distracting there potential mates. Because if it’s not your godly ordained spouse it’s a distraction.
But there are so many blurred lines in the church because it’s so few men in the church the woman that do go and find godly men to marry usually find them 9 times out of ten in the world because they aren’t in the church. Because the godly man doesn’t by into the religious ways of the church and within the church walls.
So will it ever stop. No because there are no really clear lines
The lines are drawn the bible but most people aren’t willing enough to dig deep enough into the book to decipher what is law and what is grace what should and shouldn’t be followed and then they end up following laws as much as they want to and call the rest inapplicable or impossible to follow and ask for mercy and repented for the rest trying to obscure there disobedience on those Little things they don’t want to let go of.
So will we ever see men held to the same standard… probably not so what do we do
