When you ate single it takes time and preperation to become what you prayed for. A lot of eoman will ask for the husband god has for them. Desire the characteristics
Mentally
emotional
Spiritual
Physically
Socially
But don't understand that God is going to prepare you to be the wife to match that husband you want. It is but a little thing for him to find your husband he picked him the second you asked for him.
YOU just need to be ready for him. Why because marrage isn't just Love making Cooking Cleaning Being mom and dad Its finances Lifestyles (blending) What your children will lean watchomg you both. Communication (how your kids learn to treat each other by watching you) You need to have relationship with a man that will be a good father figure to teach daughters - how a man should treat them By how he treats them By how he treats you
- how he teaches his sons By how his sons see how to treat his mom How the father tells him to treat other women There were marrages in the past Our grand parents The Generation that stays together The problem truth be told they had alot of marrages where they marroed and just stayed together because ot was wrong to divorce and wete miserable.
Then with todays society you started seeing people divorce. Or in that generayion legally separate (they stayed married but separated there lives Within the home Or separated living like singles
- Separate homes
- Cars
- Relationships
- Lives (Never legally divorcing)
But then there are some that are rare. Like love stories. They got married
Stayed married(10, 20, 30,40,50,60,70, YEARS) Wrote love letters to each other they kept in boxes till they died. There kids Grand kids could read on the old tarnished wearing paper.
THAT'S the love we all should aspire for. That stands the test of time. Anything woth havimg is woth fightong for Fight together Don't fight each other Build a lasting relationship.