Their is a video going viral on the interwebs of a womaning talking about how she is not going to take care of a man... But what is the definition of a partner.
There is a story going around the interwebs froma woman who is on video in her bed talking about how she will not be what SHE calls the defintion of the reason why shes going to stay single
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"Reason why i am going to stay single.... I'm Lazy but I am not going to take care of a man.... be his secratary, Make his apointments"
Not Everything you say should be said before you think about it We live in a contry is sonoimous with cancel culture and it is in now way letting up any time soon so the big question is what is really going on, she kinda need to lead with what she said latter on
How is this Relevant
Now I must say if she is not clear about what she wants shes going to atract men that will be exactly what she puts out there she doesn't want, she has to depict what is right and in order to do that is to change her mindset what did she see whaen she was growing up and how did that impact her life later on. she has to deal with the issues first because any quality man that she latter adress that she would actually like would be turned off by the way she said this. she sould have led with this
Be Kind Rewind and Start over...
She Clarified later "I want a man that will be my partner and my equal an where we both do the work, he can do the dish sometime...."
She is really looking for a partner that will balance her, you know how you find out how to get to be with that guy, you have to look AT YOU, what life do you live, and then when you look at the life you have now what you are aspiring to live. you have to look at the man and the characteristics it take s to be with that man,
Mentally
Emotionally
Physically
Spiritually
Socially
FInancially
Most men know within one converstaion if they are going to look at you for a serious relationship, by the way you carry yourself, by the way you aproach them and how you act within that conversation, a man knows if your faking to impress, the first thing you need to look at is if hes being VERY quiet, and hes just listeing, more then he's engaging because hes sizing you up. and if you don't stop talking he will realize nope, I don't want to deal with this because shes not going to stop talking.... how is shes talking.
once you know what you want you can define the mentality you are searching for, what kind of emotional connections you desire, and if you look at the spirit they operating in (Beliefs and core values) what type of social envirment do they have, what financial life are they working with, (it should be a goal to increase and never stay stagnet
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READ Gain the knowledge nessary the proverbs 31 woman is the perfect example of what a wouman really should walk around and operate as, and spire to be for where THEY are desiring to go and do
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
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