Female Empowerment

Independence VS Love and Marriage standards

Independence VS Love and Marriage standards

We are Now living in a time where Female Independence is very previlentWomen wanting to be strong and independent yet still wanting to get married.

I recently looved at a video on love and relationship and came to find out woman who are strong and independent usually feel like they can’t be themselves in relationship because they have to smother or “dumb down” there strength.

Men are attracted to women’s vulnerability. Beings able to feel like they are useful in a relationship.

There was a show I was looking at recently and the woman was talking about being in a relationship. “I am a lawyer… I was in a relationship for a few years with a man and the only side he ever saw from me was me being sweet and nice making him feel like the powerful man in the relationship one day we had a business calls together and this my field I was in the conference call handling my business like a boss… I immediately turned him off because he had NEVER seen that strength in me before… We broke up”

So why is it that men have a problem handling a strong woman.Why must a woman dumb down who she is to please a man.

Now do i believe it should be known out the gate I am a strong woman yes. But a woman has to find a middle ground.

We as woman have the right to take ourselves out when we don’t have a man. If we want to buy a house A fast car. Yacht. Be able to handle a flat tire, pump gas, and look under our own good.

I am Not saying don’t let a man be a man WHEN you have one. But be able to both of you adjusting he be more compassionate to your adjustment and he adjust to you as well being a strong woman he should be proud of the fact you can handle your own when he isn’t around.Now.

A relationship is about give and take you both should be able to humble yourselves. * He handle your strength so that so that you know you can trust him with your weakness. * You need to be able to be humble enough to let him handle your weakness.Which leads into once you are getting to know the man should you wait to sleep with him til marriage.

I think if he’s right ges right and he’s going to love you either way. If you do or don’t.Some men think a woman shouldn’t and should only wait 90 days “because if he’s not getting it from you he’s getting it from someone”

Now what about virgins who wait or born again virgins trying to make sure it’s right.Some men believe it’s a power move if the woman is strong independent. Or trying to control the relationship.

Why can’t the woman just be protecting her emotions from falling to deep for a “hit it and quit it” men

Women as they get to marriage age are looking for husband a man once said and it’s so true.Don’t date court and get into a relationship with a woman unless you are planning on marriage if you aren’t state that in the beginning

Women have the choice not to give her body to a man till marriage.

A woman that wants marriage before sex should not have to fear she is going to remain single because she won’t…. Put out

The bigger question is where are the value system and beliefs of women that just put out immediately to keep a man.

Where are standard s in relationship anymore?

The reason woman want to wait is because you can get a way DEEPER connection if they just take the time to get to know each other on a intimate level.

See woman don’t know sex isn’t intimacy.

Intimacy is long walks at park.

Laying on the couch talking all night.

Having picnics

Reading together

Going out on dates

Sharing activities

Getting to know each other deeply, suprising each other. Connecting intellectually and spiritually.

Some times you can have a more powerful intimate moment that is better then sex. You don’t miss it.

The DEEPER connection you have without it the more intense well rounded connection you will have with it. You could get to a point you know each other’s thoughts without saying them connection.That connects money can’t buy and sex can’t beat. Not because you can read minds but because you just know each other so well you are in tune to them.

"That is the kind of relationship all women should want before marriage. It’s that relationship that can stand the test of time."

So in closing men need to humble themselves to there females strength and they will find balance in strong woman should do the same in return. There needs to be balanced.The key to the whole formula is get to know each other if it’s ment to be no matter how strong she is he will not be moved. Sex or no sex

There souls will call each other. And the right man will respect a woman for waiting.A real love between two people Will be unbreakable. “What God brings together let no man put asunder”

I like to leave you with this quote from Maya Angelo

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